Mary Panza

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Housewife Tuesday – Exit Interview

I feel safe to say that December 2012 was cosmically bad. Tragedy, tears and people asking questions that will never be answered. It is a freaking scary world. Please realize that I

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Housewife Tuesday – Ass Over Face

You thought I was going to talk about my weekend. No. The title is about a decision I made a few years ago. I was around 41, trying one diet after

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Housewife Tuesday – Doomed

Saying I have hit rock bottom is an understatement. At least that is what I thought. I am alone, relationship wise, for the first time in my life. It is scary

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Housewife Tuesday – Mommy

I have been trying to write this for a long time. Weeks. I have poor Thom dropping hints like bombs. I have been carefully piecing this along because it involves being

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Housewife Tuesday – Shine On

To say I have had a weird week is an understatement. One week ago one of my most beloved friends died. His name was Sam. He was in hospice care.

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Housewife Tuesday – That Kind of Girl

Believe it or not, I used to be easy. Call it low self esteem. Call it the 90’s. Call it not being able to pass up (what was supposed to be)

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Housewife Tuesday – Gay For Cake

A few days ago I liked a post on Facebook.  It was a post with a photo of cake.  Not just any cake, mind you, but a rainbow cake.  It

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Housewife Tuesday – Vacation

I am sitting here in a great house on the Cape. This is a tradition my family has carried on all my life. We take a week, pack up 20 or

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Housewife Tuesday – #uck It List

“Dying when you are not really sick is really sick. Really!” – Charles Dumar from the movie “Better off Dead” On Wed, May 23rd at 5:01pm I turned 44. No

Mary Panza at the 2012 Albany Word Fest Founders Reading

Housewife Tuesday – I Am Not Dateable

My Mother had her bowling league. My sister has her “coffee clutch”. I have supper club. Supper club consists of me and three of my girlfriends. We meet every six weeks

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Housewife Tuesday – Yard Working

“Tell him ‘nice job with the yard.” Seems like a compliment but it was the snotty text my ex sent me the other day. He believed that someone else had been