My mother was effortlessly cool
She could put on pink lipstick while my father drove the red Rambler
over every pothole in Brooklyn
She defied polio so I suspect she could leap tall
buildings in a single bound if her left foot didn’t drag a bit
when she stood on her tippy toes
Let’s face it: she survived one incurable disease
and was felled by another but she defied
death longer than anyone I know
Today I am seven years younger than she
when she died and I am so old
We never got to grow old together
so I search for her in between the notes
of a James Taylor song about friendship
clean my house spit spot while Kenny Rankin sings “Groovin,”
Even now I can picture her barefoot feet
on the car dashboard as she handed out homemade
sandwiches to her chirping baby girls
My second toe spatulated just like hers
a sure sign that I was of her
Made in Joan
Her absence has emptied into all of my days
especially those birthdays ending in 0’s or
when the light is just so when I sit
on the beach while mothers and daughters
walk by laughing talking in that
Conspiratorial way the breeze
blowing their long hair eastward
I pretend she is with me
I hold my own hand as if it was in hers
and maybe just maybe I have become the woman
she always wanted me to be
Nancy Klepsch is a poet and a teacher who co-hosts 2nd Sunday @ 2 open mic for poetry and prose. god must be a boogie man is her first book of poetry and is available from her website at www.nancyklepsch.com.
This poem won Second Prize in the 2022 HVWG Poetry Contest.
I was touched and recalled my mother in a similar way.